Sunday, February 22, 2026

Know Thy Product

Many years ago, I was assigned a project where I was to meet my fourth client in my career as a Business Analyst (BA). I was brimming with confidence as a young BA with the experience from the previous three projects.

I was to meet a senior executive from the client team to gather requirements for a new application they wanted my team to build. Armed with enthusiasm and good spirits, I reached the client’s office well before time and prepared myself for the session. There were no presentations from my end, since the plan was to interview the client team, discuss their business requirement and take notes.

After a few minutes, the team members from the client started walking in one by one. Finally, the big boss himself arrived. We went through the process of initial introductions. Soon after that, the senior executive asked one of his team members to showcase a presentation about the business plan so that I was aware of the context.

The team member opened her laptop and switched on the projector to display the presentation on to the big screen in the meeting room. The projector got powered on, the familiar blue screen was displayed on the screen. But how much ever she tried, the presentation failed to load on to the screen. The screen seemed to be silently screaming in blue!

A few moments went by. The blue screen seemed to stare at all of us with nothing getting displayed. I could sense everyone getting impatient in the room, especially the boss. A couple of minutes later came a statement that redefined my concepts of working in IT. He said, ‘You are in IT, you must be able to fix the projector!’

Whether the senior executive truly meant that statement or not, that was my first of many experiences, with some of the clients I had worked with since then, about how ill-informed can people be about the roles and responsibilities of folks who worked in the vast world of Information Technology. For many, just like the boss in the above incident, a Business Analyst and a Hardware expert who could fix issues with a projector were both from IT and hence they can both do the job irrespective of their specialisation.

A decade later, as the world moved from Waterfall to Agile ways of working, I could see similar arguments manifested in a different manner. When I met clients in the capacity of a Product Manager, one of the biggest challenges I faced was on the boundaries defined for the Product I owned. This was especially true from operational teams for whom, dilution of the nature of Product was never really a problem. Their sole objective seemed to be addressing a business problem through the Product, irrespective of whether it really was a part of the core capability of the Product.

There were multiple instances where clients had asked for features that rightly belonged to another Product to be brought into the one, I handled. It required a great deal of persuasion and at times even helping them see how logically the ask was a misfit helped in bringing back the conversations on track. If it was not for the pushback, what would have guaranteed were multiple Products in the organization with capabilities getting duplicated. Unfortunately, this remains a sad reality in many companies.

The Big Question: Is there a way to avoid this situation? While there is not a simple and straight forward answer, I will still say, we need to have a Push & Pull Strategy that needs to be applied here. We need Product Managers to be clearly aware of the bigger picture with respect to their Product. They really need to know their Product in-depth and realize exactly when the boundaries are threatened to be crossed. It is also important to have a high-level understanding of related Products and how they are designed to have a logical discussion and convincing a client on why it is important not to dilute your Product with a feature that really did not belong.

Equally important is the fact that clients need to be educated to ‘Think Product’. This is not a one-time effort. It will always be a battle between Operational Convenience Vs Product Strategy.

Do not get disheartened. The good news is, most of the clients we from Product world must deal with, are logical in nature and they understand if presented with meaningful and logical reasons. That alone is the way to sustain a better way of working with Products and avoid costly overlaps which otherwise will result in a phenomenon called ‘Product Overhead’ which unfortunately remains largely undetected, especially if it is an organization with hundreds of Products.

So, next time when someone asks you for a feature to be added, first ask yourself this question and then challenge your client. Does this feature really belong to the Product and adds value to the client? More importantly do we avoid overlaps with other Products thereby making the Product landscape of the organization more streamlined and better managed.

Cheers to all sensible Product managers out there as well as rational clients who understand the reason when you challenge the requirement to add a new feature!

Once upon a time...

Am not sure if you will believe what I am going to tell you. It was the day when, I created a flowchart for a business process. I used a pen and sketched on a paper on my diary. Oh, I almost forgot to mention, I used my brain too!


The whole process was quite empowering and liberating. I thought, I wrote, I scratched, I sketched, I thought again and there it was! The result of my cerebral exercise. A beautiful child born out of sheer human perseverance.

I loved it. I owned it. It was mine. Cent percent!

I then did something else too. I created a neat representation of the flowchart using a drawing app and once done I mailed it to my business users for their validation. All that took about a day for me.

I stopped for a moment to take a sip of water when I heard a call, 'Sid, come have your dinner. You can continue your story session with grandpa later. By the way, did you finish your project?'

Sid, my adorable grandchild, ran to the kitchen. I heard him telling his mom, 'No mom. The bot was not feeling well earlier. It should be fine now. I will get it done in two minutes.'

I went back to my nostalgia, when I lived a younger life, much before AI redefined everything literally...

Sunday, February 15, 2026

The Jewel of My Life

Many years ago, during my college time, one day my mom and I was having a casual conversation about life in general. When the topic came to married life, mom said, ‘Marriage is a like buying a lottery ticket. If you are lucky, you will get a good partner’.

This was early 90’s in Kerala when arranged marriages were pretty much the way of life. The concept was quite strange for people from Western world when they heard that you could marry someone without falling in love first. Quite sure it still sounds the same but let us say it was a way of life. We found happiness in discovering love together and since both parties involved heavily invested their time and effort for such a beautiful discovery, most of the times the result was cherished quite well.

A few years later, by the time calendar was nearing the end of 2009, I treaded the same path and took a lottery ticket myself. Our initial days were in Bangalore where we started setting up our life together. The process of discovery was not easy I must admit. There were many things we did not know each other and every day we figured out something new about ourselves. Not all findings were pleasant while there were adorable ones that kept us going.

As we look back, we realize that we have replaced the calendars sixteen times and the biggest realization we have today is that we are still discovering each other, all the while enjoying the feeling of being in love! If someone told us this in 2009, I am certain that neither of us would have believed that.

Having said that, this post is not just about love. It is also about the moments when the love of my life was instrumental in decisions we had taken together in life that defined our future. All such decisive moments now feel like glorious chapters of our past.

Be it, shaking myself out of my comfort zone and making me believe that I can take on a new challenge, or staying together while crossing the seas and settling in a new country, or jointly rowing our family boat while adding two tiny bundles of joy during the last decade and half, or motivating me to venture into unknown territories outside work and proving to me again that the limit I can stretch is not even the sky, and above everything else, being there as the calm during all storms we endured and pushing herself in believing in me more than what I believe in myself, this ladies and gentlemen is the true reason for the post.

As we celebrate Valentine's week, I want to acknowledge the real leadership that reminds me everything that I knew I could do, but more importantly empowers me to believe that I could do much more. It all happened with that one lottery I took way back in 2009.

Today, I want to tell my mom, I was lucky not just to win the bumper prize, but it was a priceless gem that destiny had kept in store for me. It must be a sheer coincidence that her name is Ruby!

Sunday, February 8, 2026

Equal (In) Justice!

Jane is a mother of three adorable little ones, Ben, Stacy and Keith. As is the case with many households across the world, their home is always filled with cries and laughter from the games and fights by the 'darling devils', a name Jane calls them occasionally, half serious and half fun!

Usually when one of the darling devils crosses the limits of fun, Jane reminds them about the rules of the game and generally they fall in line. Rarely when the reminder did not work, she usually bestowed them with minor disciplinary actions such grounding for a day with no access to TV, games etc. But these actions were limited to the culprit which helped in directing the action to the one who committed the mistake. It also acted as a serious reminder for the rest of the kids that their mother meant business and they better get their act straight. The strategy worked all the time.

One of those days, there was an incident when the limits of fun was trespassed by Keith, the youngest of the kids. The offence was committed with the greatest margin of naughtiness till that date. Jane was furious! She was so mad that, shortly the announcement about grounding came through with new set of rules. No tabs, No TV and No games for an entire week. Her fury did not stop there. She declared that the grounding applied to all three kids. No questions asked! Jane even went beyond and got her rules framed and hung them on the wall of kids' room.

Keith tried to revolt but soon accepted his destiny. Ben and Stacy could not initially comprehend why they were getting punished for a mischief by Keith. They raised their voice of dissent. But their concerns died a painful death when their voices hit a solid wall of resistance erected by their mom. They retreated with great pain and a deep feeling of betrayal, something they never experienced before in the family.

Life moved on. Jane found her new way of reprimanding, quite easy and effective. The intermittent voices of dissent were suppressed with authority. Little did she know that her 'darling devils' were slowly drifting away from her. Soon a day would come when they all stopped talking to her. The house was no longer filled with cries and laughter from the games and fights by the darling devils. Only muffled wails and faint sobbing rippled across the walls of once vibrant home.

The rules remained hanging on the wall.

The End.

After story: If you felt a connection to the above narration to what is happening in your office environment, it is not merely incidental. An office is a logical extension of a family. The nature of decisions and its impact on people, are quite similar, whether at home or in office.

Hence if you are in a leadership role, may you be blessed with the cerebral prowess laced with emotional intelligence to take decisions that will unify the extended members of your family at office, than driving them away. Always remember, rules are meant to follow, but if you are the one who is setting them, ask yourself if they make sense, not just logically, but emotionally as well.

Game of Perceptions

It is said that, if you feel you have too many problems, you should look at people who are less fortunate than you, and all of a sudden you will realize, your problems are not problems at all.


But, what if your problems are a result of your affluence? You try to look at people less fortunate than you for solace. It is when reality hits you, that they, do not have these problems at all! You feel even more miserable. What do you do then? It is time for you to look up.

Take a good look at people even more affluent than you. Trust me, when I say, you will be blessed with the most satisfying realisation that greater the prosperity, bigger are the cost of their problems. All of a sudden, a sense of calmness engulfs you.

Life is all about perceptions...

Thursday, February 5, 2026

Positively Opportunistic

I am not sure how many of you have heard of the name, Roshan Mathew. For those who do not know, he is one of the youngest actors in Indian cinema industry today who works in Malayalam, Hindi and Tamil films. While a promising actor indeed, what made me a fan, was his awesome ability to communicate, whether setting a stage on fire with an electrifying speech or a subtle way of tackling rapid fire questions in an interview, he just mesmerizes you with his sheer screen presence and an out-of-the-world way of delivering his thoughts.

Earlier in the evening today, I happened to watch an interview he gave, with Johny Lukose, one of the toughest interviewers in Malayalam media world. One of the questions directed to Roshan was about his choice of films and how selective he was compared to some of his peers. The first question was followed with a tail end question as well about whether he did not find it risky to be rejecting many roles and choosing only a few. His answer sounded quite philosophical when he said, ‘You need to be afraid only if you have a well laid out plan for years ahead. If you consider every opportunity you receive as a blessing, then you have nothing to worry’.

What promptly followed was a question about his debut movie. Roshan spoke about his foray into theatres that helped with developing a passion for acting. He received an offer for a movie named ‘Puthiya Niyamam’, a Malayalam crime drama, with lead roles handled by two of the highest paid and immensely capable actors in Indian cinemas today. Mammootty, the mega star of Malayalam cinemas and Nayanthara who is a South Indian sensation. Roshan was offered the role of a villain.

His first ever film and the role was of a villain! That did not go well with some of his close relatives and friends. They all tried to dissuade him from signing up for the movie citing the fear of getting typecasted. That was when Roshan gave an answer which truly resonated his philosophy of life. He said, ‘You need to worry about typecasting only if you are sure of getting a second film. When I am not even sure if I will get another opportunity, why would I let go a dream-come-true moment for an actor to work with stalwarts such as Mammootty and Nayanthara?’

It gave me goosebumps! Who knows? Maybe this young man is destined to be in the leagues of legends such as Anthony Hopkins or Mohanlal who either had debuted as villains or were shot to fame in a movie where they portrayed a negative character!

Opportunistic, is usually considered as a negative trait. But this is when you take away something by hook or by crook what rightfully belonged to others. On the other hand, if you are an opportunist to grab what could be rightfully yours and not being reckless to throw away what could turn out to be a pot of gold, then you are nothing but being positively opportunistic!

Ask yourself, what have you been, when opportunities knocked at your doorstep?

Tail End: Happy to share a personal moment of pride when I got to know Roshan is from Changanacherry, my own hometown in Kerala. If you want to know what really converted me as a big fan of this guy, you must watch the speech he gave at Spoken Fest Mumbai 2020: Every Story Has A House.

A friendly warning: You may want to hold on to your chair while watching the above speech!

Monday, February 2, 2026

Breaking the Bread

When we plan a multi-day trip, we usually choose a good hotel to stay which has breakfast facility. One of the main reasons is that, if you start the day with a good breakfast, that alone will keep your spirits high throughout the day. It is also the time for you as a family to recollect some of the beautiful moments from the previous day.

Considering this, on our first ever trip to Europe as a family we decided to follow the same plan. After experiencing the joy of European breakfast in Germany in a hotel, our next stop was at one of the most enchanting tourist destinations in the world, Switzerland! 

We decided to try something different this time. We found a lovely apartment at Bern through Booking.com with the option of breakfast included. The description spoke about bread, eggs, jams and a few other associated items available for breakfast. We were quite happy with the deal and also the location, as it was perfectly placed to reach the attractions we wanted to cover while being there in Swiss.

After crossing the border of Germany and Switzerland, we made a quick stop at the famous Rhine falls. By evening we reached our place of stay at Bern. It was not dark yet since it was summer. The instruction from the apartment owner was clear on how to access the apartment. We followed that and settled ourselves well for the night. 

We woke up the next day and just like how we experienced breakfast in previous hotels, we were hoping to see a welcoming spread of morning delicacies. Nothing happened. We tried contacting the owner and that was when reality struck. The description in Booking.com apparently meant, breakfast items were available in the apartment, but we had to prepare that ourselves! Bread was placed on the kitchen table. Eggs, jam and butter were in the fridge. Cooking utensils, oil and rest were available at our disposal in the house for us to make the breakfast. Coffee powder, tea bags and sugar were neatly sitting on one corner of the table, and they seemed to be mocking at our misery.

As soon as we recovered from the initial shock, we decided to prepare the breakfast. We got the eggs done. Coffee was also prepared and finally it was time to have them all together with the bread. We opened the packet of bread, which was dark brown in colour, seasoned with wholegrains. Those were the times, when we were yet to be fully into brown bread-based diet. Nevertheless, we were game to experiment this new type of bread. 

That was when shocker number two greeted us. We felt the bread was as hard as a piece of plywood that we thought we will need an axe to break it! Even after we managed to break the bread to pieces, the greatest challenge was to eat it. It won't be an understatement if I said, that was the most tasteless bread we ever had in our life! Since we were getting late and had to have something, we managed to gulp down the thing they called bread and headed out to our destination for the day.

A lesson well learned not to blindly trust and guess everything written on travel sites. When in doubt, ask! 

Happy travels...

Know Thy Product

Many years ago, I was assigned a project where I was to meet my fourth client in my career as a Business Analyst (BA). I was brimming with c...