Article for Bethlehem Matrimonial - July 2014
I’ve been noticing one thing off late about the conversation with folks back home. Every phone call is laced with adjectives such as “tough days, lot of work, hectic” etc. I was wondering what exactly is happening in my life that things are becoming so complex. That’s when my two year old came up with a ‘major’ problem he is facing with his new toy truck. The truck has a major section and an attached trailer as well. The part where trailer is attached came off and he was really worried his truck got damaged. I took a look at it and applied some glue and the trailer was working perfectly fine. I was quite surprised to see the amount of happiness on his face. That made me ask the question, when was the last time I was so happy on such small things?
I’ve been noticing one thing off late about the conversation with folks back home. Every phone call is laced with adjectives such as “tough days, lot of work, hectic” etc. I was wondering what exactly is happening in my life that things are becoming so complex. That’s when my two year old came up with a ‘major’ problem he is facing with his new toy truck. The truck has a major section and an attached trailer as well. The part where trailer is attached came off and he was really worried his truck got damaged. I took a look at it and applied some glue and the trailer was working perfectly fine. I was quite surprised to see the amount of happiness on his face. That made me ask the question, when was the last time I was so happy on such small things?
Probably it is not a small thing
for my little one; nevertheless the fact is that he found happiness in every
little such thing that we never found him unhappy over a prolonged period of
time. This is quite unlike most of us who are worried about something or other
all the while.
It may sound a bit similar,
though there is a subtle difference between being happy about small things in
life Vs quickly recovering from your sadness. One of the biggest lessons my son
taught me is not just how to be happy about the small things in life. He also
showed me how to forget completely about the sadness you felt till a moment ago
and enjoy the happiness you now possess.
Another major trait that you lose
while you grow from being a child to an adult is your ability to have zero ego.
Have you ever noticed a baby or a child? How much ever you do something which
they dislike, it takes minimum or even little time before they come back to you
with another question or request. They are not tuned to think that this is the same
person who did something they didn’t appreciate a little while ago. For them it
was a moment in the past and past stays in the past. They live in the present.
A huge lesson to be learned from these tiny wonders!
It is no wonder why most adults
in this world love kids. Babies or kids predominantly have one agenda in life.
They just know to love forever and most importantly express the love too. You
don’t see them fretting over insignificant nothings and losing their day that
should be filled with happiness. It is such a pleasure to watch a little one
running across to you to give a hug at the end of a very tiring day. All the
worries about that day seem to disappear into the thin air. That’s the magic of
being a child!
Most likely one of the key
factors that differentiate a child from an adult is the gift to approach
everything in a simple manner. Kids really do not know how to complicate
things. They only know and are interested to see the way things are. It makes
life much easier to live. The moment we try to bring in unwarranted
complexities to simpler aspects in life, we feel being weighed down by
difficulties in life. Guess the mantra is to learn to look at life around you
in a simple manner. Do not complicate what can remain simple.
Guess I realize now why one Man
had said more than two thousand years back why it is important to be like a
child. At least this should remind us that life was much happier being a child
and there were reasons why it was so. Hence while you know you can’t become one
anymore it is quite important for you to realize why you should learn from one.
That surely must have been one of the thoughts
that crossed the mind of Wordsworth when he wrote, ‘The child is father of the
man’. Be like a child and bring back the happiness in your life!
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